"Leslie" from Harmondsworth emailed asking for a little fellatio advice ...
Will I gag while performing fellatio on my boyfriend?
There's no definitive yes or no answer to that one Leslie. It all depends on the size of your boyfriend's dick and your technique.
Your body's natural response to pushing something like a penis to the back of your throat is to trigger your gag reflex. However, over time, and with practice, you can learn to suppress the gag reflex through relaxation and breathing.
Try to relax your neck and jaw muscles and take a deep breath and release it through your nose as you go down. It will also help if you choose a position where YOU are in control of the depth of the thrusting. Try it with your boyfriend lying on his back so you can decide how much of his penis to take into your mouth. (If you’re underneath him you have very little control and he might get over-excited and try to feed you the lot!).
As with all things sexual, communication is the key, so let him know if you’re in a position that's uncomfortable for you.
Another tip for avoiding the possibility of gagging while performing fellatio is to wrap your hand around the base of his cock to control how much you take in your mouth. Most men won't even notice the difference, since the most sensitive part of the penis, the glans, is still in your mouth (and hopefully being gently tongued).
As you get more and more experienced try taking a little more each time until he asks you to marry him LOL :)
Posted: Thursday 29th January 2004, 9:21 AM